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Anal Sex is the Subject Little Talked About
We thought it was time for some sex advice on how anal sex is done.
It used to be a taboo subject, particularly by religious people. More and more are opening up to it now as is the case with many things.
I was reading an article on the net, which was written many years ago by a priest on how anal sex was a sin. He said it was how people got anal cancer. Of course this is rubbish, but it is disturbing to hear people sprouting such myths.
If anal sex is part of your sex life, then you are well aware how arousing it can be.
Anal Sex is More Out in the Open With the Younger People
Now if you’re a younger person, you’ll know it’s you that has bought this subject out into the open much more. Younger people are much freer talking about sex than their parents, and more so than their parents, parents.
Obviously some girls like it and some girls don’t. Some have never tried anal sex, their too afraid. Then there's others who think it wrong and dirty. With the younger generation, as we’ve said they’re so much more open to it. The inhibitions have disappeared.
Only Have Anal Sex If Your Partner Is In Agreement
Make sure you don’t try this on anyone who is not open to the suggestion. Never coerce anyone into it, as it can be extremely painful if they are not prepared. Your partner might also get so annoyed you'll not get sex for a week.
Some like to use a condom for cleanliness. Others it doesn’t worry. If fact there are many girls who are extremely clean up there, so you will find yourself clean when you are finished, and pull yourself out, other than your cum of course.
How Anal Sex Can Cause Relationship Problems
If your partner is not in agreement with this form of sexual activity, you can put strain on your relationship. Find ways to get your partner to try without coercion. Sometimes just rubbing your penis up against her crack can cause her to become turned on.
If you do it for a while, this is as a form of foreplay, without pushing or poking you may find your partner willing to try.
As said before it can be painful if your partner is not ready, and this could make them very angry. They may even view it as a violation. So be careful.How Anal Sex is Done
To start with:
- Its always nicer and more hygienic to be clean around the anal area before you start. Some don't care, it's a personal choice. OR use a condom.
- Make sure you have some Lubricant. It is a must for ease of penetration. Apply to your penis. You may also wish to apply a little to the sphincter area.
- Foreplay is essential to make sure you are both horny before entry.
- Once this is achieved the sphincter muscles will relax enough for penetration. This also comes about because your partner is more relaxed and concentrating more on enjoyment. Some find they need to physically relax the muscles in their body for the sphincter to relax. Tense muscles make it extremely hard.
The muscles must be relaxed or the sphincter clamps up, which can be painful. So don’t force yourself in. Many find it best not to pull out all the way and keep entering, stay inside. This is because the sphincter is having to open up again every time for re-entry.
Sexual Positions are Many
For those of you who are anal sex beginners, we thought you might like to explore how anal sex can be extremely orgasmic, when done right.
A common joke my father used to say was, “if it hurts, you’re doing it wrong”. So lets get it right.
Some Sexual positions for Anal Sex Are:
- Probably the easiest is the spooning position, (laying on your sides), you behind your partner.
- Another easy position is your partner can kneel on the edge of the bed on all fours. You stand behind.
- If you want to have anal sex laying down, you be on your side, your partner on their back and on an angle. Legs either up in the air, or interwined with yours. Experiment to get the correct positioning for easy penetration.
- This next one is an extremely erotic sexual position. Stand partner up against the wall, hands on the wall, to keep balance. (If your heights are too varied it may be a little difficult) If you're fit and flexible you can still probably pull this off.
This can be accomplished anywhere, as you're both standing up. If you aren't water concious the shower is a brilliant place for this anal sex position.
- This next position, a semi missionary position, is probably for you if you're already comfortable with anal sex. It can be extremely arousing.
Both of you lay on your sides so you can face each others. You will need the top half of your bodies a little apart at first in order to be in a position for anal sex.
Once you have penetrated, you can come closer together. Kissing is usually not possible, although it can depend on your height, but kissing breasts can be done if you are both fit. Facing each other during anal sex can be extremely erotic.
Orgasms with Anal Sex
Women will also orgasm from this act. There are others that won’t, but then some don’t orgasm from the vagina either.
Just remember as with all sex it is not a one way street. Make sure you bring your partner to climax by other means if you orgasm before her. Stimulation of her clitoris is one way or use a sex toy.
Well I hope that clears up the subject of anal sex and all it entails.