For many men, the dating game is viewed as swimming in shark infested waters, it just doesn't seem safe. If you don't take rejection well, (and who does?) the challenge of meeting women and getting to know them is a risky business.

In the initial phases, when your confidence is not as high as you would like, you will need to pay special attention to body language. Not the obvious signs that most people think and talk about, but the subtle clues that will give you the edge. It is quite amazing the amount of people who think that they know and understand body language but in reality do not have a clue. You you do not want to be one of them.

For starters, get yourself a good body language book. I recommend: The Definitive Book of Body Language by Alan and Barbara Pease. It is light and easy to read with a lot of humor added which makes the details easier to remember. Alan is Australian and has a quirky sense of humor and he really knows his stuff.

Everyone knows that crossed arms are a defensive position and that if a woman crosses her arms at you, you are not doing well. Well duh! What she is really saying by crossing her arms is: "I have been sending you "go away" signals for ages but you just don't seem to get it. Now p*** off!" Long before the arms ever crossed, you should have known where you stood with this woman.

If you are amongst several people and a woman of interest is in the group you can easily tell if you are getting her attention in a positive way. What I mean by this is that you will be able to tell that you have her attention even before she realizes that she is interested in you. If you look at her eyes or her facial gestures, you are likely to be misled because women are naturally good at disguising their facial and upper body gestures. What they are not so good at controlling is their lower body gestures. And no it is not her groin that we will be focusing on. It is her feet and knees.

In particular, the feet and knees of a woman will tend to point towards the person in a group she is conversing with, that she finds the most interesting. So if she is looking and talking to you with lots of eye contact, but her feet or knees are pointing towards someone else then you are not the focus of her attention no matter what her face and conversation might be saying. Conversely though, if one of her feet or her knees are consistently pointing towards you throughout the conversation then it is you she wants to find out more about.

Once you have her alone, then you can lookout for preening and pouting gestures that will show that she is thinking of you sexually. To find out more about these things and a whole lot more right now, visit www.lovecentria.com and sign up for their program. It really is quite eye opening.