Body Language Riddles The Dating Game
For many men, the dating game is viewed as swimming in shark infested waters, it just doesn't seem safe. If you don't take rejection well, (and who does?) the challenge of meeting women and getting to know them is a risky business.
In the initial phases, when your confidence is not as high as you would like, you will need to pay special attention to body language. Not the obvious signs that most people think and talk about, but the subtle clues that will give you the edge.
It is quite amazing the amount of people who think that they know and understand body language, but in reality do not have a clue. You do not want to be one of them. In fact people have read the books and still come away without being able to pick up the clues.
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Body Language Tips
Can You Read The Signs
Everyone knows that crossed arms are a defensive position and that if a woman crosses her arms at you, you are not doing well.
What she is really saying by crossing her arms is: "I have been sending you "go away" signals for ages, but you just don't seem to get it. Now p*** off!"
Long before the arms ever crossed, you should have read her body language and known exactly where you stood with this woman.
If you are in a group and a woman of interest is there, you can easily tell if you are getting her attention in a positive way. What do I mean? That you will be able to tell if you have her attention even before she realizes that she is interested in you.
Don't look at her eyes or her facial gestures for an indication, you are likely to be misled. Women are naturally good at disguising their facial and upper body gestures. However they are not so good at controlling their lower body gestures. And no it is not her groin that we will be focusing on. It is her feet and knees.
Focus on the Feet and Knees
When a woman is conversing, even within a group, her feet and knees will tend to point towards the person she finds the most interesting. So if she is looking and talking to you with lots of eye contact, but her feet or knees are pointing towards someone else, then you are not the focus of her attention no matter what her face and conversation might be saying.
Conversely though, if one of her feet or knees are consistently pointing towards you throughout the conversation, then it is you she wants to find out more about.
Once you have her alone, then you can lookout for preening and pouting gestures that will show that she is thinking of you sexually.
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