If you ask most women what they want in a man, the vast majority will quite openly and honestly tell you exactly what
qualities in a man that they find most pleasing.
Most women feel that they are not understood by men and modern mythology tends to paint women as unknowable to the opposite
sex. If you ask both sexes, the answer you get will be very similar and that is that women think and behave in such radically
different ways to men that there is no way that a man could properly understand them. This is a nice myth and serves to
perpetuate the 'us versus them' mentality in relationships. It also helps the average woman to maintain an edge over men in a
mans world. Fortunately, that myth is just a myth. The average woman is easily as understandable as the average man.
What women say they want is what they think they want. This may sound trite, but do not be misled. They say they want:
- Love and romance
- Attentiveness
- Affection
- Security
- Attractive man
- Adventure
- Good lover
- Physical admiration
- Sensitivity
- A man in touch with his emotions
- A trustworthy and faithful man
This list is quite intimidating and daunting for most men. In reality, if the same demands were made of women they too
would feel intimidated and daunted by these requirements.
Fortunately for you this list is mostly a lie, that's right it is BS. While many of these things are desirable and nice to
have, they are not what women
really want. So forget all you think you know about what women really want and
forget everything the media and women will tell you as well. It serves no purpose other than to confuse you, the man.
Now that we have settled that issue, move on to the
next article to find out what women
really want.
